Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte exposes rules of Victorian culture
and its definitions of love: what love should be, what love must be, and most
importantly, what love cannot be. The parameters that one’s culture places on
marriage seem to vary from time to time, location to location. Bronte gives the
modern reader an interesting contrast from his own norms regarding these rules.
Wuthering Heights serves as a social critique of the fact that
marriages in Bronte’s day, at least from the reference frame of the well-to-do,
were largely games of social stature rather than feelings of love and affection
for one’s fiancĂ©. Cathrine I becomes enchanted by the lowly Heathcliff early in
the novel, singing his praises about how much their souls are one and so on.
However, she decides to marry another, much better-off Edgar Linton to secure
her family’s assets and expand her family’s influence. This causes the majority
of the novel’s subsequent dramas and episodes, as Heathcliff reaps his revenge
on Cathrine I’s extended family in spite. True love could not run its course,
as the reader is left to believe, because of pesky economic decisions.
These same social pressures may not exist in the same strength
that they may have in Bronte’s day. In my world, the common sentiment is that
marriage is a contract of love (or at least passion). Marriage is to be made
between those who love each other, and all of the economic pressures will be
sorted out after the contract made. Coincidentally the most highly-cited reason
for divorce (common these days) is financial differences. The morals behind
marriage, it would seem, have shifted from a world of conflicted rational
decision to a world of conflicted passion-driven decision. “Give me that man
who is not passion’s slave,” (Hamlet).
Still, in other cultures of the world, marriage is still a social
and economic contract between families. Through what augmented lens do these
cultures see love? Unfortunately, in order to understand this, I would venture
into the world of non-Western literature; this may not happen until I can
meaningfully bridge a language barrier or take a world literature class.
At the end of the day, however, I can with confidence remark that
the parameters around love definitely do vary from culture to culture. At least
here, culture does definitely define morality and our attitudes toward
approaching that madness more discrete.
Love is a smoke, raised with the fume of sighs. Being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers' eyes. Being vexed, a sea nourished with lovers' tears. What is it else? A madness most discrete? A choking gall and preserving sweet? -- Romeo and Juliet